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THE CHARACTERISTICS OF A DREAMER

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What are the Characteristics of a Dreamer? Something that is very interesting is how many people will dream rather than do. We are all dreamers of sorts. It does not take much to have a dream, and everyone has them. But most just settle and don’t try to make that dream a reality. Life does not have to be something that we just let pass by, we can live to the fullest, with no regrets, here is a bit of insight in how. Take the Shot “You miss 100% of the shots you do not take.” This is something that is very true. When you are a dreamer, you always will find a new dream, or even a vision. The hard part is putting it into action. Anything that comes with pursuing something you want is 90% psychological. You have to know you want it, and how you want to get it before starting the journey. If your head is in the game, everything else will follow. Dreamers are Visionaries, We are great at starting things, generating ideas, questioning the system and inspiring others. We identify potential

JUMP INTO A HEALTHIER YOU

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The more I think about the idea of jumping into a healthier lifestyle, the more I started wondering about what it actually means. Obviously, the idea is to get back to a healthier version of you. That’s pretty simple, right? My mind as a trainer always goes to one simple question. Why did you stop? Ask yourself that right now. Why did you stop eating healthy? Why did you stop exercising? I’m sure all of you have had hiccups in life that can derail us from our goals. We all try to climb the mountain of good habits to only fall back down when those hiccups come up again. So, how can we jump into a healthier you? How can you find your ice axe to stop the free-fall down the mountain? These are five simple elements for you to focus on and can become your ice axe. Hopefully, these are simple enough to get you started today, but also are easy to remember the next time you’re looking for motivation.  Just get Started Simple right? Do you want to know the best time to get started? No not to

HOW TO COMMIT YOURSELF TO THE GYM

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I’ve been there, I feel like a lot of people have. The time in your life where you either watch an inspirational movie or see someone on Instagram with an amazing physique and think “I’m going to get on my gym grind and get shredded!”. So the next week you start up and begin to actually enjoy yourself with the health benefits that come along with exercise, but after that initial week or month is up, you quickly realize that it’s a very challenging and long commitment if you want to get results. This realization causes so many to become discouraged and slowly drift away from the gym, I went through this stage 3 times my first year of training before I fully engaged myself. It’s a vicious cycle that will keep you in it’s path unless you find these 3 key factors. 1. Why. Why do you want to go to the gym? Why do you want to start exercising? You need to ask yourself these questions and find the answers, this very well may be the MOST important part to committing yourself as it is your

HOW TO EAT WELL WHILE ON VACATION

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Airports. Crowded tourist destinations. Rest stops. Crappy hotel food. Travel. There is a lot that can stop you from eating well while you vacation. Don’t let your travels turn into a diet disaster. Here are some tips to prevent your eating from going off track so that you can enjoy your vacation. Eat regular meals.  As difficult as it can be fitting your three meals a day (or more) into your schedule when you’re running through security to get to your gate or trying to see every tourist attraction before you leave, take a few minutes out of your super busy day and find some time to eat. Even if this means squeezing a sandwich into your bag into your bag, eating enough and at proper times during the day will help prevent you from getting “ hangry ” and in return, will help you to actually enjoy your travels. The same goes with water (don’t forget to hydrate!). Pack snacks.  If you don’t have enough time to sit down for an actual meal, bring some foods with you that are filling and ea

GUIDE TO MINDFUL EATING

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When it comes to wellness and having a healthy relationship with both your mind and body, mindful eating is the way to go. It is exactly what it sounds like—using the mind to guide what you put in your body. Most people use mindful eating without even knowing it, but people who have been trying to diet and/or suffer with eating disorders have thrown away the mindful approach. Of all the “diets” out there, this one is the most successful as it puts you in tune with your body and allows you to eat exactly what and how much food you need. Here are some tips on how go about this! Eat what your body tells you to eat.  You may think that eating what you crave will lead to disaster, especially if you are one of those people who craves massive amounts of junk food. The thing is that cravings tell you what your body NEEDS. Once you give into the craving, your body will be begin to be satisfied because you have given it sufficient nutrients. This will eventually lead to much fewer cravings all

4 SIMPLE WAYS TO DEAL WITH ANXIETY

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I have struggled with anxiety and sadness a lot over the past few months and I still continue to do it. Am I the only one having this problem? Why do I keep on recalling old pictures and memories in my mind? What if I am not powerful enough to face the challenges standing in my way? What if all the doubts in my head turn out to be true? These are all part of the worries I have to face every day. Hopefully I have received some knowledge which lifts me above negativity. So I will try to share some of it with you. 1. No matter how bad your mood is, it always improves with time!  Imagine that your troubling thoughts and uncertainties are just clouds going over your head – they pass with time and eventually the sun shines again. 2. They don’t define you!  Each hour an average of 2500 to 3000 thoughts are going through your head so ask yourself how many are actually serving you. Do you define yourself with them? If you do that you are making a huge mistake because this simply isn’t true.

5 HABITS TO A HAPPY MARRIAGE (2 MIN READ)

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Here are five simple ways to keep your marriage warm and alive. Daily doses of hugs and kisses Make it a habit of hugging or kissing your spouse early in the morning before leaving for work. This may look trivial but it will become a second nature once you do it every day. This act of love, albeit simple, is very powerful indeed. It helps to break down barriers easily should you faced with future conflicts. Offering compliments We often forget that before we are husband and wife, we are men and women. As time passed by, you forget how gorgeous she looks in that red dress or how good he smells in the aftershave. Put an effort to compliment each other even if it’s out of your way to do so. If you forget, just text him or her! Date nights After having kids, spending time together is proven to be so much harder. However, a loving relationship between husband and wife is the essence of a happy family. Invest in hiring a babysitter at least once or twice a week so that you could spend

Makeup Revolution ~Beyond Flawless Eyeshadow Palette ~Review and Swatches

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Hello Everyone! In today’s post I will be sharing with you my opinions on the Makeup Revolution Beyond Flawless eyeshadow and swatches. Makeup Revolution is a very well know drugstore brand that has amazing products at affordable prices. I have been loving Makeup Revolution Palettes nowadays and have been using them a lot. The colors in this palette looked so beautiful that I had to get it and also I am so much into neutral makeup look these days which temped me to buy this more. I got this palette from amazon.in for Rs 1750, actually I wanted to get the original Flawless eyeshadow from this range but got this instead because it had more nudes, golds, bronze shades in it and also the shades in this palette looked very similar to the Naked 3 palette but with much less price. I was so impressed with the packaging of this palette, the outer cover box looked so classy with the golden card box and the eye palette was super sleek with rose gold writing. It also had a name sheet of all th

Small High-end Makeup Haul~ I splurged a bit

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Hello everyone! Hope you all are having wonderful holidays. Since it is going to be the last post of 2016 on my blog I wanted to post about my holiday shopping haul and this time I splurged a little and got some high-end stuffs. The items that I got in this little haul have been on my wishlist for ages and I am so glad that I could finally check off all of these items from my list and start the coming year with a happy note. So read down below to see what I got and also I did give little mini reviews since I have already been using these products for a while now. Whenever I thought of purchasing a high-end makeup item it was always my dream to purchase a beauty blender but 20$ for just a sponge was too much for me to spend and being a beignner in makeup I could not splurge so much on a single item.Few months back I got myself a dupe of the original beauty blender and it worked great too but after few uses it was time to purchase a new one and that’s when I thought of getting the ori

How to Effectively Curate Your Career

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To help curate your own future, start by asking yourself a series of questions: WHAT DO I WANT MY FUTURE TO LOOK LIKE? When you’re focused on the day-to-day, it can be challenging to make time to think about the long term. Yet it’s time well spent. Start with your ultimate career goal, then work your way backward. What does your goal look and feel like? What specific actions do you need to take to reach it? HOW DO I PURSUE MY ULTIMATE CAREER GOAL?  After you have a clear idea of what you want, it’s time to develop your task list for achieving it. In the time-management book Getting Things Done, David Allen articulates his system for prioritizing tasks. Create powerful to-do lists based on: 1. Your time. Identify those tasks that you can tackle between appointments—like scanning job listings or course catalogs—and those that require you to block out a few hours—like crafting a cover letter or updating your portfolio. Be ready to take advantage of delayed meetings or cancellation

5 Tips for Healthy, Loving Relationships

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1. SEE THE BEST IN YOUR PARTNER AND THE RELATIONSHIP Research on perception and attention shows that we see more of what we look for, so if you’re looking for signs of kindness, that’s more likely to stand out to you. How you think about and interpret your partner’s actions, intentions, and words also affects how you feel and understand a situation with them, which in turn affects how you behave toward them. Put it into practice: Spend a week looking for anything and everything your partner does “right.” You can even jot down anything you notice for each day if you choose. 2. HAVE FUN Couples who engage in exciting and enjoyable activities together have greater relationship satisfaction from before to after the shared activity. As several studies have shown, couples who play together stay together. Put it into practice: Choose an activity with your partner that you’ve never done together before that you would both find engaging and fun, such as taking dancing lessons, staying the

How To Control Your Anger (Instead Of Letting It Control You)

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We all know that if we want to be physically fit, we have to train our physical muscles through cardiovascular exercise, strength training, stretching, and so on. We also know this takes great discipline. We can’t just work out sporadically and expect great results. While much societal emphasis is placed on the importance of having a strong, fit, healthy body, less attention is paid to developing healthy emotional muscles. Control over our feelings needs regular exercise to stay strong as well. Why does emotional fitness matter? Have you ever been having a perfectly fine (even wonderful!) day, only to receive an upsetting phone call or rude email that instantly "ruins" your day? I know I have. I recently received a phone call from my agent alerting me to the fact that a client was refusing to pay me for a job I had already performed, making all kinds of excuses and trying to justify withholding payment. I found myself getting irate—taking their unprofessionalism personall

13 Tips To Make A Good Relationship Great

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1. Do the things you did the first year you were dating. As the months and years roll on, we tend to slink into our proverbial sweatpants and get lazy in our relationship. We lose our patience, gentleness, thoughtfulness, understanding and the general effort we once made toward our mate. Think back to the first year of your relationship and write down all the things you used to do for your partner. Now start doing them again. 2. Ask for what you want. Over time, we assume that our partner knows us so well that we don’t need to ask for what we want. What happens when we make this assumption? Expectations are set and just as quickly, they get deflated. Those unmet expectations can leave us questioning the viability of our partnership and connection. Keep in mind that “asking for what you want” extends to everything from emotional to sexual wants. 3. Become an expert on your partner. Think about who your mate really is and what excites him or her (both physically and emotionally). We

Hoodies For Women: Fashion’s Favourite Trend

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You know those outfits you wear without any sartorial connotations? Yeah I know it’s a hard one, but I’m sure there are a few, like sweatpants, t-shirts you wear around the house, or hoodies for women when you workout or go shopping. Little did we know the things we take for granted are the most important ones. #goingdeep Who knew that when I go to sweat my ass off in gym class, in one of those women’s hoodies I actually rock? #delusionalmuch According to fashion’s latest trend hoodies are IN. Okay not so latest. More like circa 2016, but still standing, hence this post. To be honest with you, it’s no surprise really that hoodies for women were such a massive trend a year ago, and continue to this day to be a major stylish look, because hello! Active wear sports-luxe, effortless chic, gangsta-glam, These are all looks everyone is obsessed with. #InstagramOutfits (man, I gotta stop with the hashtags. btw I’m so lame sometimes I talk in hashtags. #eyeroll #cantstop Lawd help me.)